Sex To Make You Sexier...

1. don’t be in a rush.
2. don’t be too demanding.
3. talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.
4. always create a romantic atmosphere.
5. make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.
6. give her lots of kisses and cuddles before you even think about making any approach to her sexual area.
7. when you do start to stroke, rub or kiss her genitals, don’t rush into ‘attacking’ her clitoris.
8. use her own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris.
9. remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm.
10. sometimes encourage her to ‘run’ your sex sessions. You can learn a lot by watching how she stimulates herself or by, really listening to her when she suggests a sex position.

These are some stories about their faking orgasm… hehehe enjoyyy…

“My fiance and I were having sex, but I couldn’t climax. I knew his feelings would be hurt if I didn’t, so I decided to pretend. As I screamed “Yes!” as loud as possible, I slammed my hand on to the nightstand, causing my favorite — and super expensive — flower vase to fall off and break. Yeah, so not worth it, and my fiance still loves to remind me about the time he gave me that ‘glass-shattering O.’” - Leigh, 30

“I was having sex with my boyfriend, and while I usually have no problem reaching the big O, for some reason I couldn’t that night. So I moaned loudly, arched my back, and for extra emphasis, I made my right leg spasm. The only problem: Now every time I come for real, my guy thinks I’m faking it because my ‘leg didn’t twitch.’ Oh, the irony.” - Liz, 26

“I started dating a guy who turned out to be an asshole — he thought he was a ladies’ man and would flirt with other girls when we were together. But, he had the most amazing body I’d ever seen, so I figured I’d at least see what he was like in the bedroom. It turns out, he was terrible. I was so disappointed, within a minute of having sex, I deadpanned, “Oh. Wow. I just came.” Here’s the amazing part: The guy was so egotistical, my (very obvious) sarcasm went right over his head. After he finished he said, ‘You orgasmed so fast, I think I set a new record.’ Uh, right.” - Molly, 25

“I know every single line of When Harry Met Sally, including that famous scene when Meg Ryan fakes an orgasm in the diner. So recently when I was hooking up with this really sweet, but not-so-skilled guy, I decided to treat him to a dramatic performance. I repeated Meg Ryan’s climax ‘oh’ for ‘oh.’ When we were spooning afterward, he even asked, ‘Has anyone ever told you that you sound a lot like that chick flick orgasm scene when you come?’ I had to bite the pillow to keep from laughing.” - Lauren, 27

“When it comes to faking it, I figure the louder I am, the more believable it is. It worked like a charm until one afternoon when I was having sex with my now ex-boyfriend. I moaned at the top of my lungs and screamed the dirtiest things I could think of. I was pretty proud of my performance…that is, until I walked out of the bedroom to see my guy’s housemate and a group of his buddies in the living room, giving me a standing ovation.” - Katie, 29

“I normally never fake it, but my husband was determined to make me have an orgasm and I was getting sore from all his effort. I just wanted to get the show overwith, so I dug my nails into his back and moaned, ‘Oh my God! I’m coming!’ As soon as I let go, my husband ran to the bathroom. Apparently, in my effort to be a convincing actress, I scratched him with my nails a little too hard and made him bleed.” - Julie, 31

SEX… it’s a casual routine that you guys do when you need something fun…

but, ever you guys did it quietly ???

ahhhh the sex will not be colorful anymore if you did it quietly…

why we have to moaning while we having sex ?

moaning it means you give some feedback about your partner action while you guys doing an sex-action…

a man will be like a knight if you give him a moaning, an erotic moaning…

its a proof that he do it correctly to make you satisfy with his actions…

Affectionate sigh, cry, or facial expression when she reaches climax (orgasm), can make a man feel he has failed to satisfy your lust…

Not only the expression of just the voice, he also felt a “hero” on the bed, while his partner resigned to “battle” that had just passed along…

As reported by The Sun, Sunday (21/3/2010), when a woman being handed himself, it has its own value in the eyes of men… When you do this, the couple thought the event had to satisfy your love…

Letting the body to touch, or explore any way by a partner, would make the he feels you really like to be treated like that… Moreover, if occasionally you reply to the hot action in a way that he is more mischievous… In this way, you can bet you both can achieve orgasm…

it’s time to moaning girls !!!

rrrrr…

auuummmm !!!

hehehe…

The following oral sex techniques are a simple guide to teaching all of you the basics of “eating out,” and I’m not talking about fine dining. If you’re not much of a vaginal vacuum and are hesitant to try oral sex because of odors or whatever other preconceived notions that you have, ensuring that she has just come out of the shower will ease your tension and you’ll be able to let loose orally. There are men who stand their ground and absolutely refuse to perform oral sex; I suggest you get over yourself, because your girl likes to receive oral sex as much as you consider a good blow job a part of foreplay.

Tongue To Lips

Any licking, gentle sucking or all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with your flavor of the evening. When you begin to give oral sex, it’s important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she won’t like is an over-achiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue. Pretend that her entire vagina is an ice-cream cone with three scoops of your favorite flavor; if you don’t like ice-cream, I’m sure you can appreciate the metaphor. Use your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax; enjoy yourself and don’t get tense. Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you’ve done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side afterward.

Oral Exploration

Were you aware that the tongue is the body’s strongest muscle? Well imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were giving her oral sex. Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis, the sensations will drive her crazy. Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, you can maneuver it in ways that a penis never could. So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? Thrust your tongue in and out of her vagina, and take a break from time to time to explore her insides. While you’re roaming around down there, vary your cadence and the firmness of your tongue. Use your firm, flexed tongue for pinpoint accuracy, such as when you circle the clitoris, and use a limber, flat tongue to cover more ground. Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Especially when it comes to oral sex. However, don’t apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off. Start out gently and increase pressure and speed according to her body language. Above all, have fun down there when you’re giving her oral sex, and keep her on her toes.

Intense Vaginal Volume

When you have her as hot as a lioness in heat, the following oral sex techniques are going to drive her wild. Once again, make sure to pay attention to her reactions and body language at all times. With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by enveloping it with your mouth momentarily and releasing it. This will definitely have a positive effect on her entire body. Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultaneously flick your tongue over and around it. You can perform this oral technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes. If you combine these oral sex techniques with your fingers, she will virtually have a mind-blowing orgasm every time.

Finger-licking Good

There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multi-talented man. And if you know how to use both your tongue and fingers at the same time, you will definitely become her oral sex king.

While you’re french-kissing her clitoris, use your finger to rub it at the same time. If you can rub your stomach and pat your head at the same time, you might want to suck on her clitoris and penetrate her vagina and thrust repeatedly with your fingers.

Be careful not to lose sight of what you’re doing because the vagina is a very sensitive area and one wrong move can leave you hanging out to dry. Keep up with what you’re doing to her. Make sure that you’re not thrusting your fingers too deep or too fast. You might also want to use your finger to rub her G-spot. It’s not that big of a mystery as it’s a rough-feeling portion of flesh located on the anterior wall of the vagina.

The Tounge’s The One Figure

Use your tongue freely and don’t be afraid to venture into uncharted territory. The more relaxed you are, the more relaxed she will be. And perhaps you weren’t aware of this, but, if your woman is a gusher, the feeling of her ejaculate flowing all over your mouth is one of the world’s greatest aphrodisiacs.

No one likes a slobbering idiot, so don’t lose your mind while you’re in her sacred garden. Don’t start drooling all over her vagina and don’t do random things when you’re giving her oral sex. Always have a strategy when you’re going down and an escape plan, just in case you hit a foul ball.

Lastly, and I can’t stress this enough, never bite any part of the vagina. Not only can it cause physical harm, but you’ll probably get thrown into the dog house.

Useful Positions

In order to make your oral buffet as comfortable and as enjoyable as possible, have your lady lie on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Get on your stomach between her legs and slide your arms under her legs. Your head ends up comfortably facing your oral objective. Wrap your arms around her legs and you’ll have perfect access to her vagina, which allow you to manipulate it with your fingers.

You can also lie down in the same position and place both of your hands under her behind, elevating it so that it comes directly to your face. Although this requires a little more strength and requires both your hands, it can be very pleasurable for your woman.

Finally, you can bring her behind to the edge of the bed while you give her oral sex. Have her rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of the bed as well, and you’ll have plenty of access while you kneel in front of her love cave. This position will also give your fingers full access to her vagina.

Oral Sex Rhetoric

There you have it. Some of the basics to giving good oral sex. Of course this isn’t a definitive oral sex guide, but it’s a good place to start. There are plenty of other positions and techniques that you can try. The ones here are just some of the more comfortable positions. Remember: don’t be shy, be gentle, take your time, experiment, and have fun.

BE CREATIVE GUYS !!!

My partner tells me that his girl is the only woman he loves and the only woman he feels happy, joyful, comforted and comfortable with… He told me that he likes her physically but, because he can’t find the passion, he doesn’t feel desire and hardly touches her. He kisses her body, lips, but nothing else… He prefer to have sex can with other women he doesn’t love… Weird huh ??? I have the answer guys…

This is called the Madonna-whore complex… If you are not satisfied with this solution, you need to find another man who loves you and wants to make love to you… 

Wikipedia describes the Madonna-whore complex in this way:

The term Madonna-whore complex refers to a psychological complex in Freudian psychoanalysis that develops in the human male…

The term is also used popularly, often with subtly different meanings… 

According to Freudian psychology, this complex often develops when the sufferer is raised by a cold and distant mother… Such a man will often court women with qualities of his mother, hoping to fulfill a need for intimacy unmet in childhood… Often, the wife begins to be seen as mother to the husband — a Madonna figure — and thus not a possible object of sexual attraction… For this reason, in the mind of the sufferer love and sex cannot be mixed, and the man is reluctant to have sexual relations with his wife, for that, he thinks unconsciously, would be as incest… He will reserve sexuality for “bad” or “dirty” women, and will not develop normal feelings of love in these sexual relationships…

Popularly, the term is used to describe an unsatisfiable desire by a man to have his wife or other female partner exhibit both of these mutually exclusive traits… This introduces a dilemma where men may feel unable to love any women that can satisfy them sexually and are unable to be sexually satisfied by any women that they can love… Alternatively, the term is to describe or attempt to justify the behavior of men who pursue multiple women as a way of fulfilling each of these needs…

Source==>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madonna-whore_complex